I've been toying with the whole elimination communication (EC) thing and I think we might be on to something. During Anna's fussy afternoons, we've been laying her down, removing her diaper and she's been peeing. It hasn't solved all our problems but it does give her and us 5 more happy minutes each time.
Yesterday I started thinking that it was a huge waste to let her lay there and pee into a dry diaper so I started putting her on Aidan's virgin potty (he refuses to want anything to do with it). Anna peed into it twice! After that, Aidan ate his muffin snack sitting naked on the potty but still doesn't know he's supposed to pee into it. Or he just doesn't want to. He won't even be 2 until next week and I think diapers are EASY, but I did think he'd show a little interest by now. Oh well, Anna likes it.
I'm too lazy, like Nino (LOL!), to do it all day, but I think I'll keep trying at fussy times. Why not.